Tuesday, January 19, 2010

Chopsticks

      “Relax”, he said. “You stiff as chopstick!”
       The small but burley Asian masseur then proceeded to drape the paper-thin sheet over my body……including my whole head. I was freezing as the room was unusually cold, but thinking it would probably warm up, I simply proceeded with my laundry list of ailments including a brief surgical history and mention of my persistent debilitating shoulder pain that has required many visits to doctors and physical therapists.  'Good luck', I thought. I really am a mess...
       Suddenly, he began rapid and deep breathing as if he was hyperventilating, and then roughly plunked his hands on the sheet covering my cold body, while mumbling something about my scoliosis and twisted hips.
       “You breathe!” he demanded and then demonstrated with some more, loud repetitive panting. He sounded like a horse, and I blew out tentatively in order to show him that I was paying attention and could follow directions. “That good! Awesome!” (Horse sound. Horse sound. Horse sound). I tried not to laugh out loud.
       He continued to work through the tissue covering using long dramatic rubbing motions that felt more like he was washing clothes on a washboard than working on tension in my apparently crooked back. Often, he had to stop to adjust the gauzy sheet back over my head as it was repeatedly forced down with his bizarre technique, and I started feeling strangely corpse-like with my stiff, cold head and body hidden under a shroud. I waited for the toe tag…..
       I suppose I wasn’t breathing right, because I began feeling a little lightheaded. Thinking I needed a good hit of oxygen, I tried to take a deep breath but noticed that the intense pressure of my tormentor’s hand on my back compressed my rib cage against the table in such a way that made it difficult for me to suck in a sufficient amount of air. I made a noise that sounded a lot like a desperate wheeze, and then I coughed….and coughed….and sputtered…and coughed again.
       “You blocked in you lung”, he said. “You need relax. Let go.” he chimed and then let out some more of those frantic horse sounding noises.
       “I’m blocked in my lung because you’re squashing me.” I said.
       “I feel block. Breathe. Good. That good. Awesome!” he continued as if he hadn’t heard my pleas for release. Did he know he was suffocating me….and about to break a rib?  At this point, the ‘massage’ through the sheet was starting to get irritating and I was convinced I would have chafe marks or sheet-burn from the unreasonable friction.
       “That’s a little too rough”, I said.
       “You feel the buzz? Energy? Good! Ohh. Ahh. That good. ”
       He then lifted the sheet, fanning extra cold air on my already chilly torso and then grabbed for the oil. ‘There is no ‘buzz’, I thought disappointed, but imagined how a Martini with extra olives could take care of that. “Is this only 45 minutes?” I asked. “’…’cause I have to meet my friend in the lounge.”
       Folding the sheet down to expose my stiffened back, he tipped the bottle of massage oil upside down so that globs of the greasy stuff landed in what felt like an icy Frisbee size puddle on my back. Aren’t they supposed to heat that stuff?
       “That’s cold!” I complained, raising my head and peeking around at him.
       “That oil.” he said proudly, dousing me some more.
       ‘Jesus’, I thought as he moved the oil around, clogging absolutely every pore I have. ‘Can I fake an illness and ask to leave? How the hell do I get out of this unbelievably un-relaxing and unsettling experience? What’s next? And why is he pushing on my bum like that?’
       “You shoulder pain is from you buttock!” He said as if he had heard my thoughts. “ Relax. Awesome.  Ahhh.  Yessss.  Ooooooh. ”
       Just then he quickly jumped around to my feet and started manipulating them in ways I didn’t think feet should move. Suddenly he snapped my toes so that all of them cracked and crunched at the same time. The sound was unnerving and I was sure the people in the next room had heard it.
        “My god!” I screamed.
       “Hear that? Wow. You hear? That good. Awesome. Feet cold, block lung, buttock and shoulder pain!” he said huffing sadistically.
       He then moved back to my shoulders and back and poured even more cold oil onto me. What the hell?! Was he about to Wok something? I’d be slithering around for a week!
       He continued to breathe excitedly, working himself into some loud irregular racket that disturbingly sounded a lot like he was involved in some strange tantric ritual. I found the experience to be quite awkward and creepy and I half expected him to have to excuse himself….ew. Was massage a bizarre way for the freak gets his jollies? Does the spa know what happens in his cold little room? For god’s sake, had anyone who works there ever had one of these outlandish experiences? Was this normal? What time was it?
       He asked me to flip over.
       Again, the gauzy film was adjusted over me, tucked under my frigid feet and placed over my face. I thought of corpses and death again, but this time that seemed almost comforting, as my captor moved to my neck and sat by the top of my greasy head.
       “Don’t crack it, adjust it in any way or over-manipulate it.” I stated. “I have neck problems too.”
       He stood up, pulled the veil down from my face and then stood over me.
       “You have neck and shoulder problems because you like chopstick”.
       “Ya. Well I’m a lot less of a chopstick when I’m warm and not distressed.”
       “What stress you?”
       “This is not a relaxing massage….”
       He cut me off. “For you, no pain, no gain. You blocked in chest and buttock. I can give you soft massage, but that is waste of time. You need to stretch and open up.”
       “Um…I’m actually supper flexible, which is part of my 'loosey goosey' joint problems.” I said, defending myself. “My shoulders are tight from surgery. There is hardware in there to hold them in their sockets! There are anchors and pins in there!”
       “You don’t need surgery. Yoga! No such thing as too flexible. You not! You need r e l a x....” Obviously he didn't know I was a crazed housewife and mother.
       “I’ll work on it...at the bar. This chopstick is out of here!” I said, as I jumped off the table and headed out the door.

       Oddly, I’ve been pain-free ever since…hmmm.


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